While reading my local paper this morning, I saw that while purchasing was slow at a local mall, the line at the massage chair was huge and all the tables at the food court were full causing people to sit on ledges and stairs to enjoy their food.This simply underlines that people deep down inside are not just looking for stuff to console themselves but are enjoying the company of others and the gentle touch from a stranger. Community planners of past understood this and created central squares, plazas, and other gathering spots for its citizens. It is obvious to me that people go where people are, and it does not require spending huge sums of money to provide the motivation.
The dismal economic times are forcing us to choose methods of giving and entertaining ourselves that are not dependent on spending money we do not have, or collecting more stuff we do not really need.
My New Years wish is that we deepen this realization and refocus our time, energy, and resources toward creating neighborhoods and communities which encourage us to spend time together and allow the ancient benefits of strong community connections to make our lives rich and exciting.


